One of my measures of success in parenting is raising kind, compassionate children. I’ve gotta say, I’ve been amazed by how loving and caring Cash is already, at just one year old.
I first noticed when I took him to visit his school. A little boy named Ramon was sitting in the quiet area by himself, obviously not having a great day. Cash was drawn to him. He brought him toys, sat with him, and offered kisses.
I’ve seen it more often since Quinn has been around. From the moment they met, Cash has wanted to kiss Quinn’s head every chance he gets. When Quinn returns from a nap, Cash comes running. When Quinn is sleeping in the cosleeper, Cash tries to back in on top of him (cute but dangerous). All of the love between these two brothers is completely unprompted by us.
Tonight, when I lay down with Cash before bed, he proceeded to soothe me in the same ways that we soothe him. He rubbed my arm, rubbed my head, and patted my back. He gave me kisses. He’s just the sweetest.
I don’t think there’s much we’ve done to teach this kind of loving behavior. We’ve just loved him. That seems to be enough to give him the tools to pass it on to others. I only hope he is always this kind and compassionate toward others!
Cash likes to pat Quinn’s back when I burp him.
Not only is Cash kind, but he’s also hilarious. I love that he tries to entertain us, and cracks himself up doing it!
Joyful Striving 